Childbirth has three stages: labor, delivery, and delivery of the placenta.
The First Stage of Childbirth: Labor
Labor has three parts:
The first part of labor is called early or latent labor. This is usually the longest part. It’s usually the least painful, too.
Real contractions begin. Contractions are when the muscles of the uterus tighten and then relax. The feelings usually start in the lower back and travel to the belly. Some contractions are felt only in your back. Others are felt only in your belly. Contractions usually start about 15 to 20 minutes apart and last 30 to 45 seconds.
The cervix dilates to open 3 centimeters across. It gets thinner. This can happen over a period of days or weeks. You may not even be aware of it. Or it can happen with stronger contractions over a period of 2 to 6 hours. Rarely, it could take up to 24 hours with the stronger contractions.
Call your health care provider during the first part of labor. Your provider may tell you to go to the hospital or birthing center. Make sure you’re packed!
The second part is called active labor. This part of labor is usually shorter than the first part. On average, it lasts 2 to 3 hours. But its length can vary greatly. If you’re not already at the hospital or birthing center, you should get there early in this part of labor. Signs of this part of labor:
Contractions are stronger. They come more often, usually every 3 to 4 minutes. They last longer, from 40 to 60 seconds each.
The cervix dilates to 7 centimeters. That’s about the size of the rim of a coffee mug.
The third part is called advanced active labor or transition. It is the most tiring part. But it is also the shortest. The average length is 15 to 60 minutes. Here are signs that you are in transition:
Contractions are even stronger. They come every 2 to 3 minutes. Each lasts 60 to 90 seconds.
The cervix dilates fully. It opens 7 to 10 centimeters. That’s about the size of a small grapefruit.
The Second Stage of Childbirth: Delivery
During delivery, you push the baby down the birth canal and out into the world.
Contractions continue. They are usually more regular than before. They come less than two minutes apart. Each lasts about 60 to 90 seconds. You only push when you have contractions. Your health care provider will tell you when to push.
Most babies come out head first. Then the shoulders. After this, the rest of the baby’s body slips out with ease. Your baby may be placed on your tummy.
The umbilical cord is clamped and cut.
The time for this stage varies greatly. It can take from 10 minutes to 3 hours or more.
The Third Stage of Childbirth: Delivery of the Placenta
Delivery of the placenta usually lasts from about 5 to 30 minutes. Delivery takes place through mild contractions. You might not even feel them. One more push from you can help the placenta come out. Or a nurse or your health care provider may gently press down on your abdomen. This, too, can help the placenta come out.
{Note: The total time for labor varies from woman to woman. It also varies from pregnancy to pregnancy for the same woman. First babies tend to take longer than later ones. This is not always the case.}
Your stay in the hospital or birthing center will depend on:
The type of delivery you have and where you give birth. You may go home within 12 to 24 hours in a birthing center. You may stay in a hospital for up to two days. Both of these are with normal vaginal deliveries without problems. C-section stays vary. They usually last 2 to 3 days.
Your health insurance. Find out what your insurance pays for.
Your medical needs. You or your baby may need to stay in the hospital longer than usual if you have special medical needs.